Saving Our Sons Fall Benefit



Saving Our Sons Benefit

To donate an item:

• Quality photo of your item(s)*
• Item value (retail + shipping)
• Item description (material, size, ingredients, etc.)
• Your shop name and website (if applicable) 
• Where you will ship (U.S. only, Canada, other nations)*

Email this information to SavingSons@gmail.com

*You may also ship donated items to SOS directly at the address below,
and we will photograph and ship to winning recipients.

Bidding goes live Nov 25, and ends Dec 1.
New items may be added through Thursday, Nov 30.
All donors agree to ship items to winning bidders no later than Friday, Dec 8.

Items will be highlighted with the Peaceful Parenting, Intact Network, and Saving Our Sons communities, among other parenting and human rights groups and social media networks.

To give in lieu of the auction, become an SOS Sponsor, donate,
or support the upcoming SOS Odyssey.

Saving Our Sons
P.O. Box 1302
Virginia Beach, VA 23451

Thank you for your generosity and support as we
work toward a future of genital autonomy for all.

Click on an item below to bid on Facebook or use the Win-It-Now option.

** NEW ITEMS ADDED DAILY **
All items include shipping in the U.S.
View full album on Facebook here.

New Baby Care Kit
Included with this bundle is an Expecting Mom pack of informational items, 25 Lanolin single use packets, 8 travel packs of Calmoseptine (good for 2-3 typical applications), The Windi (to relieve newborn babies of painful gas/gut issues), and a small breastfeeding journal with coupons from Boppy and Target.
Retail Value (with shipping): $13
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Circumcision? Never Again!
Share why you would make a different decision next time around, and spark conversation with parents-to-be. This canvas tote bag expands to hold 2 1/2 gallon jugs, plus extra, or plenty of groceries. It is also a good size to use as a quick school or gym bag.
Included is a matching button, two bracelets of your choosing, and a set of info cards or stickers of your choosing.
Retail Value (with shipping): $20
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Plastibell with Clear-Top Metal Tin
One new sealed Plastibell for use in education and at expos, in a clear-top metal tin that is perfect for display (so your Plastibell does not disappear at your next event). This item is meant for educators and those leading exposition booths.
Retail Value (with shipping): $15
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GIAW Commemorative T-shirt
Deep purple from Washington D.C.'s Genital Integrity Awareness Week and Worldwide Week of Genital Autonomy. Gildan Heavy Cotton
Winner may select from Small, Medium, or 2XL
Retail Value (with shipping): $15
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Tim McGraw & Faith Hill: The Rest of Our Lives
Newly released (Nov 2017) CD | Factory Sealed
Will be shipped with a stash of intact stickers or cards (winner's choice)
Retail Value (with shipping): $15
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Click Here to Win-it-Now ($12)

Sparkle Intact / Genital Autonomy Key Chain
Vinyl, Felt, Lobster Clasp
Winner selects color choice (blue, white, green, purple)
Donated by: Starlight Dragonfly
Retail Value (with shipping): $9
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Custom crocheted Saving Our Sons / Intact Symbol Ornament
Non-breakable | RedHeart Yarn
Retail Value (with shipping): $10
Donated by Made For You By Anu
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Placenta Encapsulation Package: $175 Gift Card
Whispering Willow Birth Services serves the Hampton Roads, Virginia and surrounding areas (including some of NE North Carolina). Included in this package are: • Placenta Pickup, • Placenta Encapsulation, • 2 Placenta Prints, • Cord keepsake, and • Return delivery to the client.
Retail Value: $175
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The Village Birth Center $1,000.00 Gift Card
The Village Birth Center is the first and only freestanding birth center in Hampton Roads, Virginia, serving all of Tidewater and surrounding areas. Midwife, Jennifer Rector, is the longest practicing midwife serving mothers in SE Virginia, attending births at home and at the birth center, and handling all forms of prenatal care. In case of transfer, The Village Birth Center is 4 minutes from a supportive major medical facility.
Retail Value: $1,000.00
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Rare YouTube Elephant in the Hospital Bumper Sticker
Extra Long - 22.5 inches | New Navy/White Outdoor Heavy Vinyl
Retail (with shipping): $22
*Winner agrees to share a photo of their new bumper sticker in action with donors
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Custom crochet GA Symbol slouchy hat
Superwash Merino Wool | Adult Size | Burnt Orange & Chocolate
Retail Value (with shipping): $40
Donated by Elvish Knittables
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Kinderpack - Infant/Standard
Brand new, tags attached. "The Good Fight" print.
Has attached matching Pink/White Polka-Dot hoody-hood.
Has seat 'cinch strap' and 6 strap size adjustments.
Fits babies 8lbs-35lbs (approximately birth to age 2).
Will ship with 2 "Born to Be Worn" babywearing bracelets.
Retail (with shipping): $179
Donated by Peaceful Parenting
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Click Here to Win-It-Now ($159)

Metal lift-lid carrying tin with 150 advocacy stickers
Winner may select an assortment of stickers, or choose the styles they wish to have included.
 Retail Value (with shipping): $20
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Black metal carrying tin with lid and 150 advocacy stickers
Winner may select an assortment of stickers, or choose the styles they wish to have included.
 Retail Value (with shipping): $20
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Metal slide-top carrying tin with 150 advocacy stickers
Winner may select an assortment of stickers, or choose the styles they wish to have included.
 Retail Value (with shipping): $20
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Calmoseptine - Large 4 ounce tube
Will come with intact care materials and a hospital/daycare pack if winning bidder wishes ($3 value).
Retail Value (with shipping): $11
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 Handmade Boobie Beanie - Brown/Chocolate - 0-6 months
Will ship with a breastfeeding packet of assorted items, coupons, samples
and a "peace love momma milk" bracelet (standard or small size).
Retail Value (with shipping): $22
Donated by Peaceful Parenting
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 Handmade Boobie Beanie - Beige/Brown - 0-6 months
Will ship with a breastfeeding packet of assorted items, coupons, samples
and a "peace love momma milk" bracelet (standard or small size).
Retail Value (with shipping): $22
Donated by Peaceful Parenting
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Two mOmma 5-ounce Lansinoh Bottles
Perfect for pumping moms or babies who are also breastfeeding.
Will ship with a breastfeeding packet of assorted items, coupons, 25 individual packets of Lanolin,
and a "peace love momma milk" bracelet (standard or small size).
Retail Value (with shipping): $20
Donated by Peaceful Parenting
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Custom crochet baby dress and hair band
Size 0-3 months | RedHeart Yarn
Retail Value (with shipping): $40 for combo
Donated by Made For You By Anu
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Custom Bunny Lovie
Made with RedHeart Yarn
Retail Value (with shipping): $18
Donated by Made For You By Anu
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Custom crochet baby hats
Hat One: 2 sided blues / Hat Two: with bear ears
Size 0-3 months | RedHeart Yarn
Retail Value (with shipping): $20 for combo
Donated by Made For You By Anu
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Custom crochet 2 sided hat
Purple/green and pink/navy
Hat size 0-3 months | RedHeart Yarn
Retail Value (with shipping): $15
Donated by Made For You By Anu
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Custom crocheted baby blanket
RedHeart Yarn
Retail Value (with shipping): $25
Donated by Made For You By Anu
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Custom Crochet Baby Booties
 Newborn - 3mo | Deep Purple-Pink with Chocolate | Acrylic
Retail Value (with shipping): $18
Donated by Elvish Knittables
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Custom crochet GA Symbol Pixie Hat
Superwash Merino Wool | Toddler-Child Size | Purple/Pink/Gray/Green
Retail Value (with shipping): $35
Donated by Elvish Knittables
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GA Symbol T-shirt
Size Adult Large (narrow fit) | TeeSpring | Black 
Reads: Circumcision is a Human Rights Violation
Will ship with a variety of #i2 stickers and cards
Retail Value (with shipping): $25
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Saving Our Sons T-shirt
Size Adult Small or Large (winner chooses) | White 
Will ship with a variety of #i2 stickers and cards
Retail Value (with shipping): $20
Donated by Saving Our Sons
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Saving Our Sons T-shirt
Size Adult XL (roomy fit) | White 
Will ship with a variety of #i2 stickers and cards
Retail Value (with shipping): $20
Donated by Saving Our Sons
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I Want My Foreskin for Giftmas (New) Hardcover Book
Will ship with a variety of #i2 stickers and cards
Retail Value (with shipping): $20
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Doctors Re-examine Circumcision (New) Book
Will ship with a variety of #i2 stickers and cards
Retail Value (with shipping): Unknown
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Miranda's Tangerine GA Lip Balm - 2 count
Lime Flavor | All Natural
Made with extra virgin olive oil, organic virgin coconut oil,
organic beeswax, and organic essential oils.
Two lip balms per set will ship with a variety of #i2 stickers and cards
Retail Value (with shipping): $10
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(winner selects cap colors while quantities last)


3rd Rock Sunblock!
The best natural sunblock available today.
Made only with natural, organic, toxin-free, food-grade ingredients. Baby safe!
PETA and Leaping Bunny approved. Non-scented. Learn more about 3rd Rock.
Each container of 3rd Rock Sunblock will come with an advocacy bracelet of your choice.
Retail Value (with shipping): $25
Donated by Peaceful Parenting
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BabyComfy Nose
#1 tested nasal aspirator recommended by Dr. Sears and other gentle parenting pediatricians.
Learn more about the BabyComfy Nose.
BabyComfy Nose will arrive with a small variety of baby care materials.
Retail Value (with shipping): $16
Donated by Peaceful Parenting
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Bebámour Diaper bag with changing pad and 2 insulated bottle totes.
Multiple compartments, brand new with tags attached.
Will come with 2 Lansinoh mOmma 5-ounce bottles for breastfeeding/pumping moms (if winning bidder is able to use them). $15 value
Will come with 25 Lanolin individual packets if winning bidder is able to use them. $9 value
Retail Value (with shipping): $70
Donated by Peaceful Parenting
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Give Me the Wild Children


Give Me the Wild Children

give me the wild children
with their bare feet
and sparkling eyes.

the restless,
churning climbers.

the wild ones using their outside voices,
singing all the way home.

give me the wonder-filled, glorious mess makers
dreaming of mountains and mud,
aching to run through a field of stars.

-Nicolette Sowder, Wilder Child


Nature / Outdoors Books


Nature and Outdoors
books and activities loved by Peaceful Parenting families

Family and Friends New Baby Visitor Guide


Family and Friends New Baby Visitor Guide

Be aware of what families with new babies need (and don't need).

Please Do: 
Wait for a sure invitation 
Bring groceries or a meal 
Pick up essentials you know the family will need (toilet paper, bottled water, etc.) 
Do dishes, chores, fold laundry, empty trash, sweep, wipe counters, clean the bathroom 
Offer to hold baby while mom showers and naps 

Please Don't: 
Wear strong smells like perfume or smoke 
Expect mom will be your hostess 
Give unsolicited advice 
Be offended if the new family doesn’t answer calls or desire visitors 
Bring young children without invitation 

STOP! 
No fevers, coughs, sniffles, colds! 
Reschedule your visit. 

If Mom is Struggling: 
Offer hands and ears 
Talk with a postpartum doula 
Be aware, supportive, responsive 
Take postpartum depression seriously

Full color sheet above is included in each Expecting/New Parent Pack. Packs can be mailed anonymously or with a note to new/expecting families, and each sheet can be laminated for hanging. On Etsy: https://www.etsy.com/listing/534201074/expecting-new-parent-circumcision-intact?ref=shop_home_active_3

Also available as oversized postcards for birth workers and families: https://www.etsy.com/listing/589236581/new-baby-family-friends-visitor-guide?ref=shop_home_active_4

Each sheet is also printable in full color as 8.5 x 11 standard paper. You are welcome to download and print to use in your home.

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Mouse in the House

By Laura Mazza - Mum on the Run
Read more from Mazza at: TheMumOnTheRun.com
Originally on Facebook. Published with author's permission. 


Okay so I've been debating whether to post this because I'm convinced people will think I'm an incapable human being at life and adulthood, but I've figured they're right and I may as well.

Today I saw a mouse in my son's room.

A mouse.

Stewart Little has decided to come into my house and set up camp near my son's drawers. (Not his pants American people, his clothes' drawer thing).

I saw it and I froze. And it was the kinda freeze that you feel like you shouldn't even breathe. Where your air escapes your lungs. I'm trying to find my pulse again when my daughter decided to strut into the room with her toddler swag and I screamed no! And it wasn't just any no. It was the loudest noooooooooooooooooooooo I've ever made in my life.

So I shut the door and I leave little Jerry (Tom's mate) to his own devices.

I decided to call my husband because there's a mouse in the house, and when there is a mouse in the house, other than blow torching the house down, there isn't much in the way of rational thinking.

He answers the phone and I say "mouse" -- I stutter because I'm fucking terrified. This is no Mickey Mouse, okay. This is Ratatouille, but smaller, and he isn't making some delicious soup, he's gonna spray out pebble poo and make babies everywhere and in my son's ears and they'll crawl in my mouth... mouse in my mouth!!!

"Huh?" He says.

"Mouse in house," I say still shaken.

"Cat in hat," he replies.

"No babe, there's a mouse in Luca's room! You need to come home NOW and take it outside!"

"Oh, Bub, you just take it outside, or just kill it."

"Kill it???"

Obviously this guy hasn't seen the movie 'Witches' where the witch turns into a mouse after eating soup and gets stomped on by the chef and green pus sprays out.

"There are children in the house, your children. You need to come here. I can't save them."

He laughs.

He thinks I'm joking.

This face isn't joking. This face is scared that this mouse is going to radio the rescuers and call his other mice friends to come and have a pebble poo party orgy. NOT ON MY WATCH, MOUSE. Not on my watch. But of course he can't see my face because he's on the phone.

"Okay I'm being serious; there's a mouse in the house and I'm FREAKING THE F OUT."

I actually did swear but I'll try and be cool in the post. Pretty sure I called the mouse the C word. 

"Where is it?" he asks.

"In Luca's room."

"Where?"

"I dunno. I'll open the door..."

I open the door so slowly... inch by inch in snail speed, so slow that I can hear my husband asking if I'm still there.

And it's there. In the same spot. "It's dead!!!!!"

I shut the door.

Oh my lord the mouse is dead. I have a DEAD mouse in my house. I start to cry a little bit.  "It's dead... it never had a chance to live its life."

"Babe just go scoop it up with a piece of paper and put it in the bin. I have to go to a meeting."

So I hung up on him. Because obviously I'm alone in this. I'm alone and I need to be the brave one...

So I take a couple of swigs of whiskey, and say, "Okay, Laura, today is the day you will fight your biggest fear in life and remove a dead mouse from your house." I said this about 10 times in the mirror, and slapped myself a few times before I bolted down the door and went charging in like a knight in shining armor with a piece of paper screaming like the warrior woman I am and charge up onto this dead mouse in my house and I realize...

I realise it's not a mouse. No, not a mouse at all... It's a tiny leopard... A tiny toy leopard. I nod to myself and say, "We shall never tell a soul about this."

My husband got home 4 hours later and asked me how it went... I said, "Mate, I handled that shit."

Well now the mouse is outta the bag... Pic of the bastard below.



About the author: Laura Mazza - Mum on the Run

Why I Love Breastfeeding and Babywearing


Breastfeeding while babywearing isn't the easiest thing in the world to get used to, but there are some great benefits of combing the two practices that I think you'll really enjoy. You can't understand just how freeing it is to be able to breastfeed hands-free!

Why I love breastfeeding + babywearing.


It's convenient. With a little practice, you'll be able to breastfeed discreetly while also giving you the opportunity to get things done around the house. Some babies nurse better while being worn. According to Dr. Sears, feeding while babywearing can actually help children who are problem suckers. Those can include tense babies who suffer from a suck problem known as "tonic bites." Also, babies who arch their backs while feeding will be much more comfortable while being worn. It's also thought that it can help underweight babies who don't eat enough. The closeness to mom increases their comfort and encourages them to eat more frequently. Bonus! Makes sibling care easier. If you're a parent of multiple children, being able to wear your child and breastfeed them at the same time gives you a pair of free hands. You'll be able to play with and care for the child who you aren't feeding, too. The position is ideal for digestion. When wearing your child, the common upright position will aid their digestion, which can be key for colicky babies. Not only that, but positioning a baby's head higher than the feet gives their delicate digestive system more control over the food and liquid, which can lower the risk of choking.

A few safety tips.


Always make sure that your little one can breathe properly. This means that no material or breast tissue should be covering her face. She should also be positioned in a way that keeps her next straight, without her chin pressed into her chest. A good idea is to use the finger method to check. Simply make sure that there is always at least 1-2 adult finger widths of space between your little one's chin and chest. Be sure to check often! Also, always be listening for grunting or snoring noises, or anything that sounds abnormal to you. If you hear any of these noises, it could mean that your child is having trouble breathing.

T.I.C.K.S. chart via MomTricks

Clothes to make it easier.


The clothes you wear can either make or break your experience, so be sure to pick out a proper wardrobe. Once your baby is in his carrier, you won't be able to remove any clothing, so being prepared beforehand is key. Generally, something loose and stretchy is a good choice. Something with a big/stretchy neckline is a good choice, as long as you're okay with nursing outside of your top. For a more modest approach, consider wearing layers of shirts. This way, you can lift up the top layer while still keeping the lower layer covering you up. If you choose to go this route, you will likely need to pull up the top layer of the shirt before wrapping your baby in the carrier, because it will be very hard to do so if you do it after.

The best carriers by age.


There are a few different types of carriers, but when it comes to breastfeeding, this is my advice: For younger babies, a wrap or ring sling style carrier is the best option for breastfeeding. Wraps provide a close fit and easy access to the nipple, and this close fit will make baby feel more comfortable and warm, which in turn encourages them to feed. For older babies, a carrier-style device might be a better option. Once your little one can support her own head and neck, the extra mobility offered to her by a carrier will be very appreciated.

Remember to be patient.


Breastfeeding in itself is not always something that comes easy, and when combining it with babywearing, it can be even harder. Don't expect everything to go perfectly at first, and don't expect it to be completely hands-free. You'll likely need to use your hands to adjust and support your little one at first. This also applies to babywearing without breastfeeding, in order to make sure they're safe at all times. But don't fear: with a little practice, before long you'll be able to do it all hands-free! A few more tips:
  • A good idea is to practice at home when your baby isn't hungry. This gives you a low-stress opportunity to get it all down.
  • Know your carrier and all of its features well. Read the manual, and better yet, head over to Youtube to look at a few videos first.
  • You might consider practicing upright breastfeeding without the carrier first. One idea is to lie back and have your little one straddle you.

Discussion groups for today's peaceful parenting families: DrMomma.org/2007/12/discussion-groups.html

International Babywearing WeekBabywearingWeek.org

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Total Eclipse Solar Glasses, Safety, and Homemade Viewing Options





Families the nation over will be sharing August 21st with their children watching the Solar Eclipse take place. Proper protection for the eyes, especially for little ones who cannot do so for themselves, is essential. The following information has been shared by NASA Education, and various astronomy educators for parents and children alike, and put together here for Peaceful Parenting audiences.

Looking directly at the sun is always unsafe except during the brief total phase of a solar eclipse (totality) if you are in this particular path -- when the moon entirely blocks the sun’s bright face. This minute (or two) of totality will happen only within this narrow path. In all other areas, having solar glasses during the entire eclipse viewing is necessary.

The only safe way to look directly at the uneclipsed, or partially eclipsed, sun is through special-purpose solar filters, such as 'eclipse glasses' or hand-held solar viewers. Homemade filters or ordinary sunglasses, even those with very dark lenses, are not safe for looking at the sun - they transmit thousands of times too much sunlight.

Refer to the American Astronomical Society (AAS) Reputable Vendors of Solar Filters & Viewers page for a list of manufacturers and authorized dealers of eclipse glasses and handheld solar viewers verified to be compliant with the ISO 12312-2 international safety standard for such products. One quick way to tell if the cardboard glasses you may be able to pick up at your local store, library, or museum are reputable is to look for the ISO stamp on the inside of the glasses.

Approximately half of all libraries in the United States (in each state) have solar glasses that they are giving away for free, so check with your local library if you do not yet have a pair. The following retail chains have all been carrying solar glasses for a few dollars per pair:

Always inspect your solar filter before use; if scratched or damaged, discard it. Read and follow any instructions printed on or packaged with the filter. Always supervise children using solar filters. Stand still and cover your eyes with your eclipse glasses or solar viewer before looking up at the bright sun. After looking at the sun, turn away and remove your filter — do not remove it while looking at the sun. Do not look at the uneclipsed or partially eclipsed sun through an unfiltered camera, telescope, binoculars, or other optical device.

Similarly, do not look at the sun through a camera, a telescope, binoculars, or any other optical device while using your eclipse glasses or hand-held solar viewer — the concentrated solar rays will damage the filter and enter your eye(s), causing injury.

Seek expert advice from an astronomer before using a solar filter with a camera, a telescope, binoculars, or any other optical device. Note that solar filters must be attached to the front of any telescope, binoculars, camera lens, or other optics.

If you are within the path of totality, remove your solar filter only when the moon completely covers the sun’s bright face and it suddenly gets quite dark. Experience totality, then, as soon as the bright sun begins to reappear, replace your solar viewer to look at the remaining partial phases.

Outside the path of totality, you must always use a safe solar filter to view the sun directly. If you normally wear eyeglasses, keep them on. Put your eclipse glasses on over them, or hold your handheld viewer in front of them. Note: If your eclipse glasses or viewers are compliant with the ISO 12312-2 safety standard, you may look at the uneclipsed or partially eclipsed sun through them for as long as you wish. Furthermore, if the filters aren't scratched, punctured, or torn, you may reuse them indefinitely.

Some glasses/viewers are printed with warnings stating that you shouldn't look through them for more than 3 minutes at a time, and that you should discard them if they are more than 3 years old. Such warnings are outdated and do not apply to eclipse viewers compliant with the ISO 12312-2 standard adopted in 2015.


An alternative method for safe viewing of the partially eclipsed sun is pinhole projection. For example, cross the outstretched, slightly open fingers of one hand over the outstretched, slightly open fingers of the other, creating a waffle pattern. With your back to the sun, look at your hands’ shadow on the ground. The little spaces between your fingers will project a grid of small images on the ground, showing the sun as a crescent during the partial phases of the eclipse. Or just look at the shadow of a leafy tree during the partial eclipse; you'll see the ground dappled with crescent suns projected by the tiny spaces between the leaves.

A solar eclipse is one of nature’s grandest spectacles. By following these simple rules, you can safely enjoy the view and be rewarded with memories to last a lifetime.


Optical Projection
(inexpensive options for viewing the eclipse):

Feeling handy? Build a solar viewer yourself. Instructions: http://richardsont.people.cofc.edu/safe_solar_folder/index.html

Read more about Terry Richardson, senior instructor of astronomy and physics at the College of Charleston, who has made sure everyone can afford to safely view the eclipse: http://today.cofc.edu/2017/06/13/solar-eclipse-viewer-diy/

A sun funnel is another option for viewing the Solar Eclipse - and one that several people at once can safely observe. Instructions for building this (if you already have a telescope): https://eclipse.aas.org/sites/eclipse.aas.org/files/Build-Sun-Funnel-v3.2.pdf


Additional information: 

https://eclipse2017.nasa.gov

https://eclipse.aas.org

Live video streaming of the 2017 Solar Eclipse: https://www.nasa.gov/eclipselive




For viewing through cameras, telescopes, or binoculars, using a solar filter sheet is one less expensive way to outfit your gadgets for safe viewing.

Above: cloud coverage averages along line of totality.
For updates: http://www.americaneclipse2017.org/observing-the-eclipse/weather-prospects/






Babywearing in the First Year


Thank you to peaceful parenting mom and babywearing educator, Michelle, for sharing this graphic compilation from Baby-Doo.

Babywearing in the First Year

When it comes to babywearing, it is important to remember that many changes occur during the first year of life, both physically and psychologically for your little one. Because of this there is much to consider when it comes to choosing and using a carrier for all of baby's diverse developmental stages.

The above diagram of the natural babywearing progression throughout a baby's first year of life highlights some of the ways that a human baby's hips, spine, neck and legs need different support through these stages, and also the ways in which a baby is nestled in the most safe and secure manner on a parent or care-giver's chest. In this fashion, whether using a quality wrap or carrier, baby will have the physical and neurological benefits of being worn, while the wearing adult has the most comfort!

Related Resources: 

The Benefits of Babywearing (Dr. Sears)
http://www.DrMomma.org/2009/11/dr-sears-on-babywearing.html

Reasons to NOT Wear Your Baby Facing Out
http://www.DrMomma.org/2017/01/reasons-to-not-wear-your-baby-forward.html

Babywearing: Safe Positioning
DrMomma.org/2010/07/babywearing-proper-positioning.html

International Babywearing Symbol
DrMomma.org/2013/10/international-babywearing-symbol.html

Real Men Wear Babies
DrMomma.org/2010/06/real-men-wear-babies.html

Babywearing Coat Alteration Instructions
DrMomma.org/2009/11/babywearing-coat-alteration.html

The Babywearing Group
FB.com/groups/WrapMyBaby

Kinderpacks (Buy / Sell / Trade / Chat)
FB.com/groups/Kinderpack

Babywearing Correct Positioning








Love note for a second baby

By Danelle Day © 2014


Love note for a second baby


To my second little one on the way...

If I am to admit my fear, it is that I need to love you deeply, intensely -- with a love as BIG as I love your sibling -- but I am scared that I could not possibly love this greatly again.

I am told that this will undoubtedly happen. That a mother's love doubles the instant her second baby is in her arms. Yet I wrestle with doubt that this could not happen...

How could I love two more than life itself?

How could my heart - already full and overflowing - pour over another sweet child just the same?

The day I became Mom for the first time all the universe stood still. Before that moment there was no possibility of understanding this kind of love, this kind of attachment, this kind of soul-quenching power.

I would do anything, give anything, go anywhere, for my new baby.

The long nights of nursing, teething, rocking, snuggling...
The leaking, wearing, walking, singing, sleepy days that blend together...

It solidifies the rock upon which Mom and Baby are One.

How can this MotherBaby existence open up to add a third?

But I am told that it will happen. That there is something mystifyingly profound about the way that a mother's love works. Like the ocean waves that wash us over - and again, and again - each one as drenching as the one before, a momma's love for her littles is never less from one to the next.

So I trust.

I trust that what you and I have built already for these many months between us will only become insurmountable when we finally embrace.

I will breathe in your fresh goodness. I will touch your tiny, tender hands. I will scoop you up and never want to let you go.

We will nurse and snuggle and sing. We will rock and wrap and play. We will fall deeper in love each passing night, each new sunrise.

You have all of me, my sweet second baby. Every beat. Every breath. Every thought. Every step. And this does not take away from any other, in any way, because it is a mother's love. ❤

-Danelle Day © 2014


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As a lioness with her cub, I will protect you fiercely, my little one. ❤


Human Milk Proteins Inhibit Bacteria M. Luteus - Breastfeeding Benefits for Toddlers, Too!



Vicky Green, first year biosciences student at South Devon College in the U.K., has conducted a microbiology research project that appears to lend further support to an often overlooked fact: human milk is powerfully beneficial for toddlers, too! In fact, one thing we know from lactation sciences is that as a baby ages, milk from mom changes to fit a child's immunological needs. This includes becoming more concentrated and power-packed in fighting viruses and bacterial infections with each small amount of milk consumed by a busy, bustling toddler on the go.

Green told The Huffington Post that she and her classmate, Emma Browne, "...decided to test whether antimicrobial properties of breastmilk changes the older the child is feeding for a small microbiology project."

In her experiment, Green has two samples - one (BmA) from a mother nursing her 15 month old baby, and another (BmB) from a mother nursing her 3 year old toddler. [Additional information on the natural human weaning process.] Bacteria M. Luteus was added to the petri dishes as a small white disc, and soaked in the two samples of human milk. The clear space around the remaining discs is where the proteins in the milk have inhibited the bacteria. Sample BmB has acted more quickly than sample BmA. Whether this is a statistically significant difference is not determined.

There could be several reasons for differences of results (mom of sample BmB may have further antibodies built up for M. Luteus, for example). However, both samples show that human milk is successful in breaking down the bacteria, and Green's findings align with research that demonstrates the milk of a nursing baby increases in immunological density with age. In this fashion, a baby receiving all nutrients from mother's milk ('exclusively breastfeeding') is given an all-day, all-night course of immunity boosting antibodies through her milk. An older toddler, who is receiving a smaller portion of nutrients via mom's milk, also receives this vital immunity boost, but in a lesser quantity of milk. To do so, the human body concentrates these antibodies into a smaller, powerful nursing session on-the-go, and the child has the support s/he needs as the immune system and brain continue on their rapid journey to full development. [The immune system and brain do not reach near-completion until approximately age 5, which tends to correlate with an age of natural weaning cessation.]

Green found similar results with E. coli and MRSA [Methicillin-resistant Staphylococcus aureus] as well. "I'm also doing [an experiment on] colostrum in a couple of weeks," writes Green, and concludes on her Facebook post, "The future is bright, the future is breastmilk."


Nursing mothers with babies of all ages are welcome to join The Breastfeeding Group: FB.com/groups/Breastfed

Related Reading:

HAMLET Substance in Human Milk Kills Cancer Cells:
DrMomma.org/2010/04/hamlet-substance-in-breastmilk-kills.html

Microscopic View of Human Milk, Cow's Milk, and Formula:
DrMomma.org/2008/02/microscopic-view-of-human-milk-cows.html

Human Milk and Formula Ingredient List:
DrMomma.org/2008/01/human-milk-vs-formula-ingredient-list.html

The Medicinal Uses of Human Milk:
DrMomma.org/2009/09/medicinal-uses-of-breastmilk.html

[Book] Baby Matters: What Your Doctor May Not Tell You About Caring For Your Babyhttp://astore.amazon.com/peacefparent-20/detail/0975317040
Dr. Palmer's book explores more of the science behind human lactation and its impact on immunity and neurological development. A must-read for anyone interested in these topics. 

Making More Milk: The Feedback Inhibitor of Lactation:
DrMomma.org/2014/08/making-more-milk-breastfeeding-supply.html

Natural Weaning:
DrMomma.org/2010/09/natural-weaning.html

The JOY of Nursing Toddlers:
DrMomma.org/2011/02/joy-of-nursing-toddlers-photo-gallery.html

GOOD Breastfeeding Books for Nursing Mothers:
http://astore.amazon.com/peacefparent-20?_encoding=UTF8&node=1


Natural weaning postcards available on Etsy or the Breastfeeding Materials page.


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18 Day Old Baby Dies From Cold Sore Virus (Oral Herpes)



18 Day Old Baby Mariana Dies From Complications of Cold Sore Virus.

We again urge reading parents to not let people kiss your babies on the mouth (or on the eyes or nose) as oral herpes is highly contagious, and catastrophic for young babies who contract the virus.

See this previous article detailing more about sweet Mariana's story, and why kissing babies on the lips is so risky, unless you have been tested and know that you are negative for this virus. The World Health Organization reports that 67% of the population (2 out of every 3 people) have oral herpes (HSV-1) whether they know that they do or not. Even without an open cold sore, herpes can be transferred from a well meaning adult to your baby through a kiss on the mouth (or eyes or nose).

One excellent way to avoid unwanted affection that puts your baby at risk is to select a wrap or carrier before your baby's birth, and wear your baby. This keeps baby close to his/her parents, in a newborn's natural habitat (mom's chest, or near dad's beating heart), allows a baby to be soothed, nursed on cue, held up at eye level for regular interaction, and keeps others' hands and mouths away from your little one.


Local news excerpt:

A West Des Moines infant has passed away 10 days after being hospitalized after coming in contact with someone with a cold sore.

“Our princess Mariana Reese Sifrit gained her angel wings at 8:41 am this morning in her daddy’s arms and her mommy right beside her,” Nicole Sifrit posted on her Facebook page Tuesday morning, “in her 18 days of life she made a huge impact on the world and we hope with Mariana’s Story we save numerous newborns' lives.”

Mariana was born a health baby girl on July 1st. Six days later her parents left their wedding early to take her to Blank Children’s Hospital when she stopped eating and couldn’t wake up. Doctors told Nicole and her husband, Shane, that Mariana had contracted Meningitis HSV-1. It’s likely someone with a cold sore kissed or handled Mariana, spreading the virus that is incredibly common for adults to have.

“I always thought this stuff happens and it’s a shame, and never thought it would happen to me,” Nicole told us last week, “I was not prepared at all. Keep your babies isolated. Don’t let just anyone come visit them. Make sure they are constantly washing their hands. Don’t let people kiss your baby and make sure they ask before they pick up your baby.”

Nicole with Baby Mariana shortly after her birth

Related Reading:

Week old baby on life support with herpes virus (cold sore kiss)

Cold sore prevention and treatment for kids

CNN Report on Baby Mariana




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