
This video was made last year "for healthcare professionals" by Sparks Pediatric and Adolescent Medicine in Sparks, NV. It is the circumcision surgery of newborn baby, Ben, in their clinic.
As you watch, note that the doctor states prepuce amputation is done for "cosmetic" reasons - not medical necessity. Yet he continues on to say that this surgery has been conducted in the same manner for 3,000 years. This is not true. [For more information see: Biblical Circumcision and related information on genital cutting pre-1900s North America.]
As Ben's mother is told that there are risks to circumcision, she covers her ears. The amputating physician tells her that complications from the operation are "very rare" and "knock on wood, we just don't see it." Untrue. A large number of infants who undergo circumcision surgery have post-op complications to one degree or another. And all have had the most sensitive, most erogenous, part of their penis removed forever.
As Ben starts to cry, the physician quickly asks, "Do you have any questions?" "Nope," replies Ben's mother, and the tape is stopped while Ben is strapped to the circumstraint board. When the tape begins again, the physician is satisfied that Ben's arms and legs are tied down tightly and explains that you must make sure a baby is "well restrained." Even a newborn will kick and roll and claw in a desperate attempt to avert an knife attack on his body.
The penis is rubbed with alcohol which serves two purposes - it kills bacteria immediately available on the surface of the penis pre-op, and it causes an erection in an infant which makes it easier for the physician to tear and cut the prepuce (foreskin) from the glans (penis head) as the two organs are otherwise tightly fused together (like your fingernail is to your finger). Anesthesia is injected into the penis (which does nothing to numb the dorsal nerve at the base of the penis). As he begins, the physician says, "Sorry, Buddy. This is the part that everyone hates..." and continues on.
Ben's cries may haunt you. They are the desperate, urgent, pleas to be rescued from the most horrific pain imaginable - the cutting off of one's genitals. They are not typical cries of a baby in need. Parents who have viewed their son's circumcision surgery will tell you that they've never heard a cry just like this.
If you have previously witnessed circumcision surgery, this may not be for you to watch. However, if you are considering circumcision for your baby (which, in the United States is the complete amputation of the prepuce organ and frequently the frenulum) please do watch. To make a research-based decision, parents must be fully informed about what circumcision surgery entails, including all aspects of the operation, the many important functions the foreskin serves in infancy and adulthood, and intact care as well.
There are many locations to go for learning more about circumcision. Available books and websites are included on this page, or to view additional surgeries (if one is not enough) search "circumcision" on YouTube. Although the majority of parents today keep their sons intact, we still find a percentage of those choosing circumcision without being well informed. In 2011, no parent should be birthing a child without being well versed in the subject ahead of time.
Ben, before and after his prepuce is amputated:
Note (above) that it is readily obvious Ben has been subjected to forced retraction already at this point in life. As a neonate, his prepuce should be tightly fused to the end of his penis, and there should be no gaping, red area. The physician also tells Ben's mother that they have "already checked" further up on Ben's shaft (commonly, as far as he was able to retract the prepuce) to check for hypospadias. Absolutely no one should be retracting your baby, for any reason. But there is an epidemic of forced retraction in the United States that parents need to be aware of.
(Above) The physician has stimulated Ben, forcing an erection. This allows the prepuce to be torn easier, for the clamp or bell to be placed tightly, and for cutting to take place with a slightly reduced chance of accidental glans (head) amputation. Others have noted that this is truly the first time in a baby's life that sex (manual stimulation of the penis to cause an erection) and violence (the non-consential, painful cutting up of the penis) mix. The Gomco clamp is used on Ben. It is one of the two most commonly used circumcision clamps in the United States, the second being the Plastibell. There are some parents who are told that the Plastibell does not involve cutting. This is not true. The prepuce is still torn apart from the glans, the bell is placed on the raw glans, the prepuce is pulled up over the glans, a string (instead of metal clamp) is tied around the prepuce, and everything above the string is cut off. There is no such thing as a "blood free" or "knife free" circumcision surgery. To view a Plastibell circumcision and learn more see this page.
Ben may now face many weeks or months of "colic" (higher in babies who have endured severe pain in their post-partum days). He may show signs of infant PTSD (post-traumatic stress disorder) via increased episodes of fright, crying, terror, lapsing in and out of a semi-comatose state (increased drowsiness, sleep), decreased interest in eating, nursing complications, thrusting instead of suckling at his mother's breast, reflux, belly aches, and neurological changes. He is now at a heightened risk for failure to thrive and faces several weeks of post-op healing. He is more likely to face infection, meatal ulcers, post-op phimosis, fibrosis, and potential need for repeat surgery. Until his penis scars and calluses over, he faces the risk of hemorrhage, which, if it occurs, will hopefully be stopped via clamps, or heart failure and death can result. He may move his body differently than his intact peers as he grows, and will respond to vaccinations and other painful episodes with higher cortisol (stress hormone) spikes and a lower threshold for pain, even into adulthood. The odds are, unfortunately, not in his favor to walk away without any post-op complications.
The CDC reports that 68% of baby boys born in the United States in 2009 remained intact. Their parents said "no" to circumcision.
No national or international medical organization in the world recommends infant circumcision.
Additional Gomco Circumcision procedure:



I live in the UK, its not done here unless for medical necessity. It's such a barbaric practice. The stills were enough, couldn't bring myself to watch the video, poor little lamb.
ReplyDeleteThis is awful. I live in the Sparks/Reno area and have not found a pediatrician yet who is not a circumciser.Poor baby!
ReplyDeleteI called this doctor's office after viewing this video and was told that the doctor did this circumcision on his own son. I told them that he should be put in jail for the sexual assault of his child, and that he was no different from the people in Africa who genitally mutilate their daughters.
ReplyDeleteHe doesn't know the harm he did to this baby, because this was probably was done to him and he doesn't know what the foreskin is for. Those who were sexually abused as children are at increased risk of becoming sexual abusers. It's true in his case.
If you want to call their office to voice your opinion of what he did and does, his office number is (775) 359-7111.
Here's hiis address:
Kevin M. Windisch MD, FAAP
Sparks Pediatric And Adolescent Medicine
975 Roberta Lane Suite 101 B
Sparks NV 89431
Dr. Windisch is a Board Certified General Pediatrician. He has been practicing in the Northern Nevada Area since 1999. He is an Adjunct Professor of Pediatrics at the University of Nevada School of Medicine, UNR School of Nursing, UNLV School of Nursing, Samuel Merrit University and Graceland University.
You can read the resume of this ignorant, clueless doctor at:
http://www.sparkspeds.com/dr%20windisch%20cv.htm
For all the degrees he earned, he failed to get a degree in compassion, love for his child, and basic common decency and respect for the rights of children. And this man is a pediatrician! God help us all with doctors like this.
that is just too awful...
ReplyDeleteI can't watch videos like this. You're right- I know that the poor little guy's cries WOULD haunt me. It's so unfair that he had to have a start like this to his life.
ReplyDeleteI thank God that my babies were born in a hospital where no one ever even mentioned "the c-word" to me.
Just looking at the pictures makes me almost fain, just the idea what a boy goes through while being circumcised. I am totally anti-circumcision, was before I educated myself and am even more so after it. Beyond awful and cruel. Plain barbaric, and not necessary.
ReplyDeleteI would NEVER want to put my child through this, not even in the name of religion. I'm going to put this link on my Birth and Healthy Living blog page.
Dagmar
Dagmar's momsense
I encourage parents to call their pediatrician’s office to ask if he or she is a circumcising doctor, or is he or she a doctor who respects the bodily integrity rights of children. If your doctor sexually mutilates boys by circumcision, find a different pediatrician or family practice doctor who does not circumcise. As responsible parents, call the pediatricians and family practice doctors where you live and learn which are the doctors who take seriously their oath to “First, Do No Harm” and which doctors who do not. Why would you want to trust the care of your children to any doctor who sexually mutilates children for profit?
ReplyDeleteMothers should call their obstetricians/gynecologists and ask if their ob/gyn mutilates baby boys by circumcision. Look for an ob/gyn who respects the rights of all infants. Change doctors if you must, and let the circumcising doctor know why you are leaving his or her practice and are going elsewhere. Tell the new doctor who doesn’t circumcise why you are switching to his or her practice.
Hit circumcising doctors where it hurts them the most- in their wallets. Circumcise these circumcising doctors financially! Don’t place yourself or your children in their care. They don’t deserve your business, and you deserve to be treated by an ethical doctor who doesn’t abuse children.
I have watched this video and two others. I hear them every night in my dreams. Thus, I post everywhere about male genital mutilation now. Needless to say, I have family members that no longer speak to me due to my "signature" line of protect boys from male genital mutilation (among others such as all babies should breastfeed) on my email. If I save one baby boy from this, then I don't care if my family never speaks to me again. No one in my life is worth putting a baby through that kind of pain, no one.
ReplyDeleteJust reading this and seeing the stills are more than enough. I have no children yet, but I have already decided that no son of mine will be circumcised! My husband (who is circumcised) is 100% supportive of this decision. Neither of us see a point to circumcision; we see it as unnecessary suffering for both parents and baby.
ReplyDeleteEvery parent considering infant circumcision should watch a video of the procedure so they know what they would be subjecting their son to. And, they should check out: http://circumcisiondecisionmaker.com/
ReplyDeleteHere are some factoids:
The current US infant circumcision rate is 32% (CDC, 2010).
More than 100 American boys die each year as a result of their circumcision (Bollinger, 2010).
Most doctors DON'T have their son circumcised (Topp, 1978).
Did he forget to mention that the baby could die?
ReplyDeleteYes, he did.
So... informed consent? Okkkay.
What about his moral values? In his speech he told the mother that it was a purely cosmetic surgery. So he thinks it is okay to perform cosmetic surgeries on newborns? Would he put silicon boobs in a baby girl? Would he cut a baby boys nipples off? Is that ETHICAL for a medical doctor?
I wish I could shout from the rooftops how against this I am. I couldn't even get through the entire video. I shudder when people tell my they did this to there son. But why am I always so worried about offending them?! When they ask me if I had it done to my son I wish I had the guts to say. "No way, I'd never cut of any healthy part of my son!! or NO WAY I could never mutilate or abuse my child." Instead I just say. Nope.
ReplyDeleteOh my goodness, that is absolutely the most awful thing I have ever seen. I cried and shook right along with that poor baby. I don't have any sons...but if I ever do, there is NO way I would put him through that. So sad :(
ReplyDeleteAs a midwife, I need to be neutral regarding this oh-so-unnecessary surgery but man, is that ever difficult. We North Americans continue to do [cosmetic] surgery on minors that has absolutely no health benefits while the rest of the world watches us and wonders what the heck we are thinking (ask a European what they think of circumcision).
ReplyDeleteThe sad part of this however, is that those who do choose to not circumcise their little boys still do not have access to the information that they need and some even second guess their decisions. There are still doctors who forcibly retract the foreskin unnecessarily and without warning to the mother.
I tell mothers of little boys that I come into contact with to not stop their little boys from playing with their penises. It serves a purpose. Little boys do it naturally. Teach them how to retract the foreskin for cleanliness when they are old enough to do it themselves - Teach them why this is important!!! Yes - that means talking about their 'private parts' - but would you rather their friends teach them...?
I also tell mothers that they are contributing to their future daughter-in-laws comfortable sex lives. Women having sex with uncircumcised men experience less discomfort than with circumcised men. There is something to think about as a mother.
There shouldn't need to be a 'movement' in this area. Some day there won't need to be. I hope that I see that day in my time.
This video is just awful, I can't see why a parent would knowingly subject their child to a non-medically necessary procedure like this one?
ReplyDeleteThat made my stomach hurt. I have had my other 3 boys circumcised due to non education, I'm so glad I found this website because we just found out we're expecting boy number 4 and I can not do this again. My husband has watched all 3 but never really told me what was going on, I'm sure he just thought it was normal procedures as he is circumcised as well, which was why I did it to them.
ReplyDeleteI don't even understand the cosmetic part. The foreskin isn't ugly. My baby has his and looks natural and adorable. The reason many Americans think the foreskin is ugly is because they aren't used to it. Well, let's change that!
ReplyDeleteI don't even know how this mother could watch that KNOWING it was simply cosmetic. We had our oldest circumcised and even though i signed a consent it was very confusing and medical mumbo jumbo. No one verbally told us anything. I truly thought i was protecting him from severe infections and dieases. At least i can claim absoulte ignorance. That probably didnt' matter to my oldest who probably scremed his head off(we were not there). GOd damnit, how is this even allowed. I thank my friend Sarah who made me see what circumcision really was. I hated her at first. But god, i thank her now, so much. Cuz at least my youngest son was spared this horrific pain.
ReplyDeleteI have to point out that he says "There is a risk of removing all or part of the penis." Really?
ReplyDeleteThe pictures are terrible even without watching the video. If we have a son we will NOT be subjecting him to this unnecessary, barbaric procedure. In my state the circ rate is still close to 70%! I have been trying to bring it up tactfully to moms that are pregnant so they can make a truly informed decision. Even in the "childbirth prep" class that I have been auditing, the teacher was extremely wishy-washy about it. I guess the hospital doesn't 'allow' her to take a stand against it. She had to admit that babies do die from the procedure when I asked, though.
ReplyDeleteThis makes me want to vomit. People that do this should be in jail with the other criminal that commit crimes against children. It is outrageous that such barbaric cruelty is still tolerated in our "modern" society.
ReplyDeleteOh my god, that is horrific! I just want to grab my sweet boy and hug him tight and thank the stars that I found the right information at the right time. It could so easily have been me subjecting my son to that in different circumstances.
ReplyDeleteI definitely don't think any man would want his son circumcised after seeing this. What a horror film! I am glad I now know how horrible this practice is and I can share it with my friends and family.
ReplyDeleteomg this is awful.
ReplyDeletei shout never let them do something like that on my baby.
is this not illigal?
i live in the netherlands so i think it is in my country (i hope)
If parents actually watched this all the way through, they would NEVER do it. Now I understand why Dr. Fleiss would say to new parents "If you start off allowing violence to be done to your baby, we will never agree on philosophy of child raising, so I won't take you on as a patient if you circumcise, knowing what you know.
ReplyDeleteCouldn't make myself watch the video, the photos where heartbreaking enough. Any son of mine will have to be cut over my dead body. Is it legal for doctors to do retraction on newborns, like if the baby is taken to the nursery, can they or the nurses do it without my consent???
ReplyDeleteEmber's Mommy -
ReplyDeleteIt is medical malpractice, but it happens *all the time.* You'll want to keep your baby with you, and be clear that YOU will do any and all diaper changes.
Some people put stickers on their son's diaper "INTACT DO NOT RETRACT" like these:
http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=10150095411842671&set=a.409331317670.191616.202794322670&theaterand
Some have a little onesie for their son that says something similar. I thought these were pretty direct "Don't Retract or my mom will sue" http://madebymomma.spreadshirt.com/intactivism-C46978D3/p13
Or they use a sharpee marker and write it on their son's diaper.
Here are some articles you may be interested in:
Forced Retraction: Don't Let it Happen to Your Son
http://www.drmomma.org/2010/11/forced-retraction-dont-let-it-happen-to.html
Only Clean What is Seen: Reversing the Epidemic of Forced Retraction:
http://www.drmomma.org/2009/09/only-clean-what-is-seen-reversing.html
Doctors Opposing Circumcision Statement for Physicians and Nurses on
Forced Retraction:
http://www.doctorsopposingcircumcision.org/info/info-forcedretraction.html
Medical Testing: Do Not Retract:
http://www.drmomma.org/2009/09/uti-testing-on-boys-do-not-retract.html
Forced Retraction: Ask the Experts
http://www.drmomma.org/2009/09/ask-experts-forced-foreskin-retraction.html
Forced Retraction? Now What?
http://www.drmomma.org/2009/12/forced-retraction-what-now.html
And additional information on intact care:
The Functions of the Foreskin:
http://www.drmomma.org/2009/09/functions-of-foreskin-purposes-of.html
Phony Phimosis Diagnosis:
http://www.drmomma.org/2010/01/phony-phimosis-diagnosis.html
National Organization of Circumcision Information Resource Centers
Publication on care of the intact penis:
http://www.nocirc.org/publish/4pam.pdf
Raising Intact Sons:
http://www.drmomma.org/2009/11/raising-intact-sons.html
Basic Care of the Intact Child:
http://www.drmomma.org/2010/01/basic-care-of-intact-child.html
Protect Your Intact Son:
http://www.drmomma.org/2009/08/protect-your-uncircumcised-son-expert.html
How the Foreskin Protects Against UTI:
http://www.drmomma.org/2009/12/how-foreskin-protects-against-uti.html
I feel sick after watching that. I couldn't imagine choosing to have my own child be cut into like that.
ReplyDeleteLuckily for him and me, my boyfriend is intact. I just want to go hug his mom and thank her!
My heart cries out for this poor baby and other babies that experience this awful and unnecessary procedure. I live in New Zealand, where thankfully MGM is very, very, very uncommon, and the intact penis is the norm. I have 2 daughters and couldn't imagine consenting to someone taking a knife to their genitalia, so can't see how it's ok for a little boy.
ReplyDeleteMy father and brother are both circumcised, which I found out from my mother this past weekend, and was quite shocked. Mum couldn't give me a reason why - she just chose to do that to her son, even though her own father & brother are intact (my grandparents are English). What shocked me the most is how my mother said "she decided" and that maybe if my brother has a son "he'll decide" to not circumcise - when is it someone elses decision to forever change another person's body?!?!
I'm lucky that my mother and father-in-law kept my husband intact - my sex life thanks them - but they didn't see any reason to circumcise - and my MIL is a nurse!
I just suppose I find it surprising how some parents can be so blase about it all - this is your baby!!! The child you chose to bring into the world, who you promised you'd protect from harm.
I know I sound like I'm rambling, but I guess I'm just in shock that not only did the mother sob through the whole procedure, instead of stepping in and running away with little Ben(as I would've done) as soon as he started screaming with the anaesthetic injection, but that a father would actually cut his own son!!!!
Note the mother pretending to block her ears while he minimises the risks. She might as well have done it for real. Where does he think "Hollywood movies" got the idea that circumcision could remove the whole penis? See "complications" in the Intactivism pages.
ReplyDeleteI can't help but notice the look on the moms face. She doesn't want to hear the risks, she looks worried, scared, unsure, and I'm sure she is cringing hearing her baby scream and cry, because I sure was. That's called INSTINCT, and you know what you are subjecting your child to is WRONG WRONG WRONG. So why not follow that instinct??
ReplyDeleteThe doctor masturbates the infant's penis before a circ and the mohel sucks the baby's penis after the circ. No wonder the world is a friggin' mess!!
ReplyDeleteOh, these poor babies. I am so glad I had people in my life who educated me and educating myself so that I didn't ignorantly do this to my boys.
ReplyDeleteI feel so bad for that baby. I'm NEVER doing this to any son I may have. No BS excuses like "hygiene" - it's called showering!
ReplyDeleteUnfortunately, many will see this video and hear how the baby stops screaming at the end and think he's no longer in pain. What has happened is his little body has reached a level of shock. I've seen circumcisions in real life (I'm a nurse and seeing circs in nursing school was a real eye opener). Babies go into shock fairly often. This doctor used a pain blocker but most do not. You can see the penile block didn't stop the crying.
ReplyDeleteIt's awful anyone would do this to their child.
The photos alone make me cringe. I'm sure the video would wrench my gut, so I just can't watch it. I am so relieved that i was unable to circ my first boy (due to his heart condition). And I am completely secure in my decision to leave our 2nd boy intact. I know for a fact I will never let this happen to any more boys I might be blessed with!!! I wish all expecting moms were given all the gory details on this subject during pregnancy, so that they make a truely informed decision, instead of just blindly doing what their mother or mother-in-law did decades ago. Watching a video like this should be in all birthing classes. You would see the circ rate drop to a miniscule amount practically overnight if mothers were informed with all the facts beforehand. And shame shame shame on the doctors who see it as another way to profit from uninformed parents; just sickening.
ReplyDeleteTears, shock and awe at first, then rage and anger and a desire to use a hot poker on the doc's sensitive orifices and all other misinformed, ignorant, and plain wicked & evil miscreants to see how they would like it.
ReplyDeleteI began to look into this 10 years ago and this sums it up. The worst is the calm detachment of the medics and then all the sycophants who listen to them.
To those who keep railing about "choice" -- bottom line: IT'S NOT YOUR FREAKIN' BODY! This from mothers / fathers who would raise holy heck if their "choice to abort" were removed since "no one will tell me what to do with MY body" -- imagine the infant having this choice too? What gives you parents the right?! And to even equate this with diaper and formula "choice?" Absolute incomprehensible idiocy.
Next reality check - medical system are LIARS. Why do you place faith in anything they say? They lie about HIV, cancer, heart disease, vaccination, pharma drugs and approvals, ad infinitum. They openly admit in the JAMA that 1/4 of studies are fraudulent -- they hold up the mantle of "science" and authority but scientific studies are human, flawed, and swayed to whomever pays for them. Get out of the matrix and THINK for oneself for once.
Your doc may be a great sincere guy but the entire system is hopelessly corrupt and this is medical TERROR. Get the facts and opt out.
Sorry to sound so angry but look at this and tell me so many of us are not suffering from unresolved trauma and assault and PTSD. Most of these comments are from women / mothers but I'm a very angry assaulted man. I will suffer no fools and no sheeplike ignorant young moms and the moronic "locker room / look like me / well the doc said so" dads either.
Is this done simply for money or just plain fun brutality? How out of touch is America from Europe or any other part of the world?
Get the word out folks.
I have been against MGM for years.. but this was probably the most eye opening thing I have read or seen...my first husband suffers serious mental issues and an addiction to violent pornography.. he had a terribly scarred penis and he and I discussed whether circumcision impacted him. How any parent could cut something off of their baby for cosmetic reasons is beyond me. It is imperative we all speak up -- I am only posting anonymously in respect to my first husband's feelings.
ReplyDeleteI just don't understand how someone could even do this to their OWN son KNOWING it's cosmetic. It's sick. Parents are supposed to PROTECT their children, not harm them. =( I could have done without knowing that this baby was the son of the doctor performing the circumcision. I think I'm even more disturbed about this video than I was before.
ReplyDeletewish i had found this video before the circumcision debate, i would have LOVED to make my MIL watch this. she said "you HAVE to have it done", the locker room lie, the it's cleaner lie, the he won't remember it lie, the it'll be easier on him if he's younger lie. she even had me speak to her dr. that's also a friend of hers, and has been her dr. for 30 yrs. he was in favor (my son is 9 months old, so it wasn't that long ago). a few facts later, and a well placed "well that's fine we can circumcise him, but if i have a girl i want her to have some big ol' breast implants so she looks like me" my son has his whole penis.
ReplyDeleteI know a girl who is very young, shes only like 19, due to have a baby boy in less then 3 weeks. I sent her this video and of course as I expected I got no reply from her! But hopefully I at least made her THINK!
ReplyDeleteDr. Momma. I know for a fact that my SIL was completely ignorant about circumcision. She didn't research it before she had her baby boy, only 15 months ago. It was some of my posts on facebook that got her alarmed, angry, then sending me "circ prevents... fill in the blank". They ended with my one liner reply... Why didn't you have your daughter's circumised to for the female equivalent of said problems?
ReplyDeletePoint of my post.... Can you interview doctors that perform circumcisions, especially those that believe they are truly cosmetic, and why do they still perform them? Why do the doctors ask the patient to have it done (well the patient's guardian). Why can't the doctors tell the patients the truth about circumcision? I realize the power of doctors. Of course, no doctor would perform surgery on a newborn for only cosmetic reasons without anethesia, right? Who would even fathom that.
Please please please... interview the doctors and nurses that perform these. Yet, do nothing to stop it. Do they adovate for their neighbors? Do they distribute information on the weekends? Or is losign their job more important.
It is the people in POWER that can stop this abuse. Until they "want to" or"can"....
Why don't they inform parents about this procedure in childbirth classes or pregnancy classes? I think they should show a circumcision being performed just like they show women giving birth. What is wrong with this picture? I am sure that if parents could witness this procedure they would not be able to agree to have it done to their perfect little baby boy.
ReplyDeleteI feel sick and so sad. I'm in the UK where it is not common practice, but it is still common practice amongst my friends in South Africa. Poor little boy...I would NEVER have been able to stand there and let it happen. Not unless it was a medical necessity, which it certainly isn't! :-(
ReplyDeleteim surprised that a doctor has to make the newborn have an erection just so he could cut off the skin isnt it more likely for the circumcision to hurt worse if the newborns penis is swollen to begin with i mean the penis is sensitive when an erection happens so why make the pain worse by exposing them to somthing that they shouldn't even be feeling untill they are teens, its like having ur infant touched by a pedafile the infants are better off without circumcision
ReplyDeleteI def. feel there is a connection between sexual trauma/voiolence and circumcision. The three intact lovers I have had the pleasure of being intimate with were/are incredibly sensitive and intuitive lovers. Sex with them was tender, gentle and loving. The 6 circed men I have been with all had sexual "issues" of one sort or another from the relatively mild issue of taking longer and needing more/stronger stimulation to reach orgasm to the more profound psychological need to incorporate violence and domination into the sex act. I cannot believe it was a mere matter of coincidence that it turned out that way. We are terrorizing and multilating our male population. Both physically and psychologically. It really has got to stop.
ReplyDeleteThis was the first (and last) circumcision video I watched. I didn't find it here. I was so disturbed, I actually pm'ed the dr. who posted it. He said HE found it disturbing that I would watch such a thing, as it was intended for medical professionals, to educate, and basically called me a pervert for watching it. What a piece of shit.
ReplyDeleteWow - that was awful to watch. The procedure would be nasty enough under general anesthesia (which is understandably avoided with a newborn unless medically necessary)but as a conscious operation the crying and screaming is unbearable to hear. I cannot image how desensitized a doctor has to become to be able to do this procedure. I was circumsized in the 1960's for "medical" or "customary" reasons. It did turn out to be helpful for me as an adult convert to Judaism to not have to undergo the procedure as an adult (I did have a drop of blood drawn in a ritual procedure). I don't have and at this point don't expect to have any male babies but that video is horrifying enough to make me swear off the procedure - I could not watch my child going though that. I very much appreciated the link to the discussion of what brit milah may have been like in the early biblical days.
ReplyDeleteJust a short followup on my recent Anonymous posting about my 1960's circ and later Jewish conversion. I long ago resolved that there was no justification for circ other than the religious mandate which I basically had just accepted as the way it is. The horror of viewing that video as well as the many thought-provoking comments here, as well as the comparison with female circ that I had long ago abhorred as well as some recent Jewish blogs I have been reading about tradition vs. morals are bringing me to a very different attitude about this procedure. Thanks for the information.
ReplyDeleteThanks to lauraleighton for posting about her message exchange with the doctor performing the circ in the video. A very insightful and disturbing comment from the doctor that only other doctors should be watching it. Why the concern for secrecy unless he is already very aware of how disturbing the prcedure is? It is hard to grasp what doctors stand to gain from promoting/performing the procedure other than a paycheck. And NO doctor is ever justified in hiding a medical procedure from the public. Secrecy means you have guilt or something to hide.
ReplyDeleteWhen are these sons of bitches going to stop mutilating babies!! It's barbaric
ReplyDeleteThis is absoulutely sad! Who could do that to a helpless child! I feel so bad!:(
ReplyDeleteThis is child abuse! Plain and simple , just awful! However any parent can stand there and allow this to happen is beyond me!
ReplyDeleteWe watched a video while we were still in the hospital trying to make the decision to circumcise or not with our first son (a surprise after 3 girls). I told my husband then that I did not feel that I had the right to make the decision to do that for our son, and he would have to choose. My husband is circ'd so the only "reason" we would have had to cut him would be for him to "look like his dad". Luckily after watching this and speaking to our pediatrician about any medical reason to do so we felt like we had no reason to circumcise him. We also had no religious reasons. We decided not to circumcise and I am SO GLAD! We now have a second son who is also intact.
ReplyDeleteI can't believe the number of parents who do this to their children. It is horrific. Of all my friends I am the only one who has left my son intact.
As horrific as these videos are, the sad thing is that this is the just the beginning of the damage. What is more disturbing is that every future sexual experience will be diminished and muted by this act.
ReplyDeletethere is a bill to end the practice of baby boy circumcision and people working tirelessly to get congress to pay attention to this issue. you can help bring this issue to light and make it stand out to your congress people. spread the word to others as well. hopefully this will be banned some day and people will look back and say "i can't believe those awful barbarians could do such a thing to their sons!" until then spread awareness one family/community at a time and save one boy at a time such a horrifying and sorrowful entrance into the world.
ReplyDeletehelp bill pass here http://mgmbill.org/takeaction.htm
After watching this I could never imagin why parents would want to do this to their babies! I have a daughter but some day if i have a boy I will not think twice about leaving him intact.
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